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We’ve assembled the most complete list of swinger clubs in the U.S.
Yep, the ultimate guide to every lifestyle-friendly club, nudist resort, and BDSM dungeon we could dig up—alphabetized, state-by-state, and freshly updated as of December 2025. Use the clickable U.S. map or scroll down to explore. Listings include links to club websites, event info, and personal reviews (when available).

Still hunting for your perfect pleasure palace?
This directory is always evolving. Think we missed a sexy spot? Drop us a line – we’re always updating.

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House of Black: San Diego’s Kinky Lifestyle Club

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 05:02:59 +0000

House of Black: San Diego’s Kinky Lifestyle Club

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Dark, kinky, and surprisingly welcoming, House of Black is San Diego’s dungeon-style lifestyle club with BDSM vibes, BYOB drinks, and a playfully deviant crowd.

By: Kat Swings

Looking for something with a little more kink and a little less frat house energy? Enter House of Black — a dark, moody, and unapologetically BDSM-friendly lifestyle club that serves up exactly what it promises. Tucked away in an unassuming strip mall lies one of the city’s best-kept secrets for kink-curious couples and open-minded adventurers. Owned by Goddess Fae Black, a bisexual kinkster with a passion for creating sexy, safe spaces, this spot isn’t your average swingers club – it’s a seductive, community-driven playhouse with ambiance for days.

We dish on all this and more plus give lots of questionable newbie advice on the Vanilla Swingers podcast.

House of Black Review

Distance – Sorrento Valley area, 92121 area code

Hours – Check online for different theme events.

Thurs – 7pm-10pm (2nd Thursday is Game Night)
Fri-Sat – 8pm-1am

Pricing – Membership approval is required. Must send a photo and 2-3 sentence blurb about yourself.

Couple – $50/trial membership
Fri-Sat – ~$100
Single Male – $25/trial membership
Fri-Sat – ~$50
Single Female – $25/trial membership
Fri-Sat – ~$50?

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First Impressions – From the outside, House of Black looks like… absolutely nothing. Like so many clubs, it’s tucked discreetly into a San Diego industrial area. You’ll be looking for a plain building with zero signage — just a door and your own anticipation. But once you’re inside, the transformation is instant. You’re greeted with deep red lighting, BDSM art, and that ever-important feeling of “okay, we’re definitely not in Kansas anymore.”

It feels intimate — more boutique than big-box — but that works in its favor. You’re not being herded through a maze of identical bedrooms. Instead, it’s all themed spaces, edgy vibes, and decor that makes it clear this club knows its niche.

Inside Tour –You’ll enter through a secure door into a small check-in area. The hosts are warm and welcoming, and if it’s your first time, expect to get a full tour and rundown on house rules (which lean heavily on consent and safety). You’ll get a wristband to wear—black for couples, red for single men, white for single women. The system makes socializing feel less ambiguous.

The layout is sleek and spacious with a warehouse vibe—high ceilings, open walkways, and curated mood lighting throughout. Near the entrance, there’s a small lounge with couches and seating for chatting or decompressing. But the real show begins as you wander deeper.

One playroom is fully dedicated to BDSM, complete with St. Andrew’s crosses, spanking benches, and adjustable furniture for all your impact or restraint fantasies. Another room is a voyeur’s dream – giant glass walls allow you to watch (or be watched) without stepping inside. You’ll also find a few classic playrooms, some open and some with curtained-off spaces for more privacy.

DJ/Bar – There’s no actual bar (House of Black is strictly BYOB) but the energy still delivers, especially on event nights. You’ll find a setup where you can hand off your bottles to a volunteer bartender who’ll mix or pour as needed. It’s not a wild party vibe, but there’s music, ambient lighting, and room to dance or flirt.

Theme Nights – Theme nights are where House of Black really shines. From sapphic kink events to rope workshops to full-moon hedonism, the calendar changes often – so if you’re craving a certain vibe, check their site.

One standout for newbies is Thursday Game Nights. These are low-key, high-fun social nights that regularly draw around 40 people – mostly between ages 25 and 45, a mix of singles and couples. Expect multiple games happening at once, from Cards Against Humanity to Jenga to Uno – many of which eventually take a sexy, strip-style twist (though participation is always optional). And yes – the playrooms are open. So if your game of strip Uno leads somewhere a little steamier, you’ve got options.

Playrooms – Here’s where House of Black stands out. Ambiance for days!!! The playrooms are BDSM-forward and thoughtfully designed. Expect Saint Andrew’s crosses, spanking benches, suspension rigs, and cages. One standout room has black walls, dramatic lighting, and dungeon furniture that looks like it was imported straight from a Fifty Shades fantasy. The vibe is consent-focused, voyeur-friendly, and exploratory. There’s often a D/s element in the air, and you’ll see people negotiating scenes, asking before touching, and being genuinely kind even when they’re strapped into a cross.

Vibe check – House of Black leans more toward the kink and BDSM community, but it’s also swinger-friendly. You’ll see a mix of newbies, seasoned lifestylers, poly folks, and exhibitionists who love the clean, low-pressure setting. Age-wise, most guests were in their 30s to 50s, with a few unicorns and younger kinksters sprinkled in depending on the night. There’s a solid male-to-female ratio, with single men allowed but you won’t find the aggressive creeper energy that plagues other SoCal spots like Thad’s.

Should you go? – If you’re looking for a place that blends swinging and kink, House of Black is a win. It’s not flashy or bougie, but the themed rooms make for a fun night out. You won’t find a dance club or poolside party here, but you will find a space where you can explore your fantasies with like-minded humans who respect the rules and each other.

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!

Naughty Links and Extras! (Fun, Irreverent, and Maybe Passably Useful)

House of Black: San Diego’s old-school swingers house with BYOB drinks, strict nudity rules, a couples-only upstairs, and a website straight outta 1999.

Swinger Lingo (check Swinger Dictionary for more!)

Swingers club: The playground of pleasure, where fantasies come to life and every night is a tantalizing adventure. A dedicated venue where individuals or couples within the swinging community gather to socialize, explore their sexuality, and engage in consensual sexual activities with other like-minded individuals.

Playroom: The adult’s version of a candy store, where toys, tools, and tantalizing treats await – because who says pleasure is just for kids? A designated space within a swinger’s venue equipped with various toys, equipment, and furnishings for sexual exploration and enjoyment.

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Thad’s in San Diego: The Full Monty and Not Much Else

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 03:19:10 +0000

Thad’s in San Diego: The Full Monty and Not Much Else

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Thad’s isn’t fancy, but it delivers no-frills sex club energy with fire pits, a pool, and all-male nudity rules. If you’re into DIY vibes and don’t mind lots of single guys, it’s an experience.

By: Kat Swings

If you’ve ever wanted your swingers club to feel like a Kiwanis Club got converted by nudists with a Costco budget, welcome to Thad’s. Tucked in a residential patch of San Diego, this long-standing sex club (swinging since 1974) delivers old-school, no-frills vibes, a lively outdoor space, and a BYOB policy – all with a firm dudes must be nude rule. It’s not a glam lifestyle club. It’s a naked backyard party with some hot tubs and house rules.

We dish on all this and more plus give lots of questionable newbie advice on the Vanilla Swingers podcast.

Thad's San Diego Review

Distance – 10 min from downtown San Diego

Hours – Very old school. You must call for an invitation from the hostess.

Wed-Thurs – 8pm-2am
Fri-Sat – 9pm-4am

Pricing – Unsure entirely on recent pricing. Call for details!

Couple –
Wed-Sat – ~$40-60
Single Male –
Wed-Sat – ~$40-60
Single Female –
Wed-Sat – ~$40-60

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First Impressions –Pulling up to Thad’s feels less like arriving at a swinger club and more like pulling into your uncle’s driveway for a backyard BBQ he forgot to tell you was now clothing-optional. Set on a quiet residential street in San Diego, this one-level ranch-style house with its mid-century facade could just as easily be an Elks Lodge, a Kiwanis Club, or that one neighbor’s place who’s always up to something. It reminded us instantly of other downhome country spots that aren’t known for their ambiance, like Whispers and Red Rooster in Vegas or PK Social in Reno – all venues that have clearly aged in place and decided that atmosphere is optional, but action is not.

The front exterior is simple with a locked pedestrian gate that leads you down a driveway toward the backyard. There’s no sign, no branding, nothing fancy to suggest what you’re about to walk into. If you didn’t know, you’d never know. Which, to be fair, is probably the point.

And let’s talk about that website. It’s giving Myspace-meets-VistaPrint, circa 1999. Pixelated flyers, janky fonts, neon text overlays… we half-expected a spinning “under construction” gif. But somehow that just makes it better. It’s a vibe. A terribly designed, softcore porn collage of a vibe.

Inside Tour – Once inside, you’re greeted by what feels like a time capsule of California mid-century masculinity. Think faux leather booths, dim brick accents, tiled floors, and a darkened lounge area with a pool table that has definitely seen things and better days. The lighting is minimal (thankfully), and the vibe is more “someone’s converted living room” than “curated swingers den.”

You’ll find a locker area to stash your belongings (bring your own towel), a small bar area, and scattered seating throughout. Down a hallway, there are several small bedrooms, some labeled for couples only, some group-friendly – and while none of them are glamorous, they’re private enough for play and lit low enough to keep things sexy… or at least forgiving.

Outside is where Thad’s really opens up – again we’re talking boho backyard BBQ not glam. The large backyard features fire pits, a hot tub, and plastic chairs for mingling. This is where much of the night unfolds – naked men, lingerie-clad women, couples chatting, and the occasional spontaneous blowjob happening under the stars. Just your average Friday night.

“All male guests are required to be fully nude.“

Dress Code – Let’s just say this place doesn’t mess around when it comes to nudity. Men must be fully nude once inside – except for footwear. Women must strip down to lingerie or anything sexy and revealing, but no street clothes are allowed beyond the locker area.

Honestly? This isn’t our type of vibe. We prefer to maintain control over when — and if — we disrobe. Being required to strip down just to socialize feels a little too prescriptive for our taste.

DJ/Bar – There’s a central bar area where you drop off your own bottle, and the staff (usually volunteers or regulars) will pour your drinks for you. It’s free, but tipping is expected. The bar itself is simple—no LED lights, no mixology wizardry—but you can get your drink and go.

On some nights, a DJ sets up either inside or outside by the fire pits. Music ranges from old-school pop to mainstream hip-hop—stuff you can dance to without feeling like you’re in a rave. That said, dancing isn’t really the main attraction. The dance floor is minimal, and most people are milling around, mingling, or finding their next play partner. Still, the music adds a layer of energy to the space, and on a good night, it keeps things feeling lively.

Playrooms – Thad’s has a ton of play space, spread across both the main house and a separate pool house out back. Inside the main house, you’ll find a variety of setups: big communal beds (some framed by giant windows for exhibitionists), small curtained nooks, and even a glory hole room. If you’re into showing off or spectating, you’ll be in heaven.

The pool house offers even more: private rooms, voyeur-friendly group spaces, and a large central bed area where things can get wild. If privacy is more your vibe, there are plenty of closed-door rooms as well. Upstairs is strictly couples-only. No single males allowed in that area. And this is strictly enforced.

The outdoor areas see just as much action. People play near the fire pits, on patio furniture, or in the hot tub. It’s raw, it’s public, and it’s clearly encouraged. Some nights, the outdoor sex energy is more intense than indoors.

Vibe check – If Red Rooster in Vegas and PK Social in Reno had a love child after a night of regret, it might look like Thad’s. It’s chaotic, unapologetically naked, and not for the faint of heart. This is not your upscale, curated swinger scene – it’s backyard debauchery wrapped in San Diego casual. The guests are usually friendly, but the all-nude male policy, zero-frills vibe, and the overwhelming single dude ratio means it won’t be for everyone. Women will likely feel very watched. Men will likely feel… chilly. The average age skews older – mostly 40s to 60s, with the occasional unicorn (usually a brave newbie) wandering through.

Should you go? – Thad’s is not for everyone. If you’re looking for ambiance, aesthetics, or exclusivity, steer clear. But if you’re local to San Diego, don’t mind the all-nude male and semi-nude female policy, and are craving a laid-back, no-judgment sex club with outdoor firepit hangs and a weirdly charming dive bar vibe – this might be your new spot.

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!

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Secrets Hideaway Review: Inside Orlando’s Nude Swingers Resort

Sat, 13 Dec 2025 23:02:30 +0000

Secrets Hideaway Review: Inside Orlando’s Nude Swingers Resort

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Naked pool parties, swinger weekends, and motel-room mischief—Secrets Hideaway in Orlando brings the heat (and the nudity), but it’s not exactly five-star.

By: Kat Swings

If you’re craving an uninhibited weekend where pool parties, playrooms, and people-watching collide in one semi-chaotic, fully naked vortex of pleasure, Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee, Florida (near Orlando), might be your kind of chaos. Don’t let the motel-y first impression fool you – behind those weathered walls is a full-on lifestyle circus with something for every level of curiosity, kink, and clothing optionality. It’s Orlando’s Disney-style adult playground – just don’t expect Mickey. Unless he’s into hot tubs, pasties, and pineapple-themed keychains.

We dish on all this and more plus give lots of questionable newbie advice on the Vanilla Swingers podcast.

Secrets Hideaway Review

Distance – 30 min from downtown Orlando (Kissimmee, FL)

Hours –

Pool Bar
Mon-Fri – 11am-2am
Sat-Sun – 9am-2am
Nightclub
Tues – 10pm-2am
Thurs-Sat – 9pm-2am
Playrooms (dungeon hours vary)
Mon-Thurs-7:30pm-2am
Fri-Sat – 11am-4am
Sunday – 11am-2am

Night Pricing – Nightly entry fees required even if you stay overnight. Plus you still have to pay membership.

Couple – membership: $50/mo, $270/6 mos, $480/yr
Mon, Wed – $10
Tues – $15
Thu, Sun – $25
Friday – $40
Saturday – $50
Single Male – membership: $169/mo, $954/6 mos, $1680/yr
Mon, Wed, Thu – $99
Tuesday – $15
Fri – Sat – $199
Sunday – $150
Single Female – membership: $25/mo, $120/6 mos, $180/yr
Monday – $5
Wed – FREE
Tues-Sun – $15

Day Pass – Membership required – see above. Hours: 11am – 5pm

Couple
Mon-Thur $10
Fri-Sun $35
Single Male
Mon-Sun $99
Single Female
Mon-Thur – $5
Fri-Sat – $10
Sunday – $15

Accommodations – $120-$420/night

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First Impressions – From the outside, Secrets gives strong “Ramada-turned-raunchy” vibes – think strip mall facade, not tropical resort. But check your expectations (and your pants) at the door. Inside, you’re met with an anything-goes energy, friendly staff who know the drill, and a whole lot of bodies ready to mingle. First-timers get the royal treatment: a walk-through, a rules rundown, and a nudge to let go and have some fun. Kudos to the staff for a friendly welcome!

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Inside Tour – Checking into Secrets Hideaway for the first time? Think “lifestyle summer camp meets motel block party.” Once you make it past the gated entrance and get wristbanded up, you’ll find yourself inside a buzzing compound of low-rise buildings, winding walkways, and a whole lotta skin.

The resort is made up of multiple motel-style buildings circling the action — the pool, courtyard, playrooms, and nightclub. Rooms open up to the outside, so don’t be surprised if you spot a couple walking past in nothing but a towel (or less). During the day, guests roam the grounds in bathing suits, lingerie, body paint, or full birthday suits, sipping drinks, chatting up strangers, and playing a game of “are we about to flirt or just borrow your pool float?”

You’ll spot open-air courtyards where people mingle, mini hot tubs tucked between buildings, and towel-clad bodies heading toward the playrooms after dark. At night, the crowd funnels toward Club Secret — the on-site nightclub — where theme parties, grinding, and eye contact-fueled invitations are the norm.

It’s clothing-optional 24/7, so expect a mix of confidence, curiosity, and cheeky vibes. And yes, the vibe is bold – but also surprisingly welcoming for newbies.

PRO TIP: Get your bearings early. The layout isn’t intuitive, especially at night when things heat up and the crowd thickens. But hey, getting a little lost in the nude jungle is part of the charm.

Pool – Secrets’ courtyard pool is the center of daytime shenanigans. It’s clothing-optional and always buzzing with chatter, drinks, and suggestive glances. Don’t expect a spa-style soak – this is more party-in-the-deep-end than pamper-me-luxury. Two hot tubs stay warm even when the vibes don’t, and they’re often the scene for late-night exhibitionism. Pool-facing rooms get loud, so don’t expect early bedtimes. Oh, and bring sunscreen. Naked sunburns are not sexy.

Secrets absolutely allows outdoor play, and it happens early and often. Threesomes pop up poolside, blowjobs happen in plain view, and a whole lot of naked or topless bodies enjoy the sunshine. The courtyard pool is very much a watch, admire, flirt, and sometimes participate zone.

DJ/Bar – The onsite nightclub serves up loud music, wild dancing, and overpriced drinks. Bag checks and fluctuating drink fees mean pregaming in your room is your best move. The dance floor is high energy, the crowd mixed (20s to 60s), and the themes range from neon to naughty. The real party? Happens after the bars close. Room doors open, chalk signs go up, and sex spills back into the courtyard.

Playrooms – Now for the main event. Secrets doesn’t skimp on the sexier side of things. The playrooms are expansive, dimly lit, and very much nude-required. You can bring a towel or robe (they don’t supply them), but lingerie has to come off. Completely off. There are beds, couches, swings, and even a group space in the center where it’s not uncommon to see a full-blown orgy by midnight. Single men sometimes linger, but the staff seems to keep it respectful. Don’t be shy – if you’re having sex in public, people will watch.

Oh, and there’s a dungeon. Yes, with a capital D. Complete with a dungeon master, spanking benches, and an intro class for curious newbies. Many claim it’s the most well-run part of the whole resort.

PRO TIPS – You get out what you put in. Leave your door open (literally), toss a tray of shots on the table, or hang out near the hot tub to meet people. Wear something playful for the themes, bring a camping chair for courtyard mingling, and be open to conversation. Don’t overthink it. Want action? Flirt, connect, and communicate. Want a chill voyeur weekend? That’s on the menu too.

Accommodations – Rooms are hit or miss. Some are surprisingly spacious with mirrors, open windows for voyeur fun, and even chalkboards to signal your intentions. Others… definite motel vibes. It’s part of the charm, right? You can get a good room, just prepare to roll the dice. The vibe leans more retro motel than resort. But if you want convenience and instant access to the action, staying onsite is the way to go.

No two stays at Secrets are the same, literally. Since every unit is privately owned and decorated, rooms range from the mundane and functional to full-blown fantasy. You might end up in the Prince Tribute Suite with its moody LED lights, the woodsy Treehouse Suite, or even an Egyptian Suite straight out of a Pharaoh’s fever dream. The decor can be quirky, luxe, or straight-up weird, so if aesthetics matter to you, browse the photos before you book.

Vibe check – Secrets is many things – chic is not one of them. But it doesn’t have to be. It’s just the right amount of kitschy. The crowd skews diverse in age and body type, with a strong showing of friendly regulars and a solid number of newbies trying things on for size (sometimes literally). ICandy parties bring the younger dirty vanillas, if you’re looking for the young crowd. The nude vibe is strong during the day, and while it can feel more Hedonism than high-end, that’s kind of the point.

Should you go? – If you’re down for a party-first, polish-later lifestyle scene that doesn’t take itself too seriously, Secrets will welcome you with open arms and open doors. Come with a sense of adventure (and a robe). Skip it if you’re expecting luxury, silence, or spa service. But if you’re ready to get naked, get flirty, and maybe get lucky? Secrets delivers.

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!

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Is Rooftop Resort Worth It? South Florida’s Nudist Hotel

Sat, 13 Dec 2025 20:25:27 +0000

Is Rooftop Resort Worth It? South Florida's Nudist Hotel

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Rooftop Resort in Hollywood Beach mixes a 24/7 nude pool with lower‑level playrooms and parties. Great for nude sunbathing, but meh on the rooms and play.

By: Kat Swings

Rooftop Resort is kind of a legend in South Florida’s swinger scene – equal parts infamous and iconic. Perched atop a retro-looking hotel in Hollywood (not the celeb one, the Florida one), this BYOB, clothing-optional venue promises steamy rooftop parties, full-access playrooms, and a sexy social vibe. Sounds like a dream, right? Well… yes and no. Depending on your expectations, it’ll either feel like a low-key paradise or a sunburnt disappointment.

We dish on all this and more plus give lots of questionable newbie advice on the Vanilla Swingers podcast.

Rooftop Resort Review

Distance – Hollywood Beach, just off A1A

Day Pass – 10am-5pm (they will aggressively kick you out at 5pm!)

Couple –
Mon-Thurs – $50
Fri-Sun – $100
Single Male
Mon-Thurs – $70
Fri-Sun – $120
Single Female –
Mon-Thurs – $20
Fri-Sun – $40

Night Pass – Saturday nights only 9pm-3am

Couple – $100
Single Male – $120
Single Female – $40

Accommodations –

Mon-Thurs – $229-299
Fri-Sun – $279-379
Holidays – $329-409
NY Eve – $359-449

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First Impressions – Pulling up on Hollywood Beach’s iconic A1A, Rooftop doesn’t shout “swinger paradise.” From the outside it looks like a weathered beach motel with an industrial vibe, giving motel vibes over resort vibes. The front entrance does not scream luxury. It’s more “no-tell motel” than sexy swinger escape. You check in through a glass window that feels more DMV than dreamy. Parking is limited, awkward, and you’ll probably loop a few times unless you’re lucky. First-timers, don’t expect signage or sleek service – you’re on your own, babes. Let’s just say… if first impressions matter to you, pack a blindfold.

Inside Tour – Rooftop occupies a six‑story building with an open atrium 70’s motel style layout — janky rooms lining interior walkways, windows into hallways if you leave your door open (voyeur opportunity if that’s your vibe), and a mix of spaces that feel like a hotel version of a nudist retreat + social club.

Top Floor (Rooftop Pool, Level 6): A 24/7 nude pool, overlooking Hollywood Beach, surrounded by loungers and sun‑seekers.
Second Floor (Bar & Play Lounge): A courtyard/bar area with DJ, dance floor, and places to mingle. BYOB is a plus here, with a friendly bartender to mix your own stash at night.
Third Floor (Playrooms & Dance): Several playrooms with couches, swings, benches, a big round bed, and even a sauna.
Guest Rooms: Basic but clean and comfortable, with big window openings into shared corridors – cute if you like exhibitionism, annoying if you want privacy.

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Pool – The pool is clothing-optional central, and honestly, it’s where Rooftop shines and stumbles. On a sunny weekend, it’s a blast – boozy, flirty, with a DJ spinning and couples mingling. Yay! You’ll see it all – body glitter, tan lines, and the occasional sex swing selfie.

But don’t get it twisted – sex on the pool deck is NOT allowed. No splashing and smashing. Once high‑rise neighbors like Margaritaville Hollywood Beach Resort popped up next door, discretion became mandatory. The raciest thing you’ll see up top is some heavy grinding in the hot tub and a few wandering hands under towels.

Accommodations – The rooms are the definition of functional at best, frat house flashback at worst. You’ll find standard king beds, mirrors, and maybe a sprinkle of retro Vegas motel charm if you squint. But the wear and tear is real. Think stained carpets, wonky light fixtures, and that lingering musty vibe you can’t quite Febreze away. You’re not here for five-star sheets, you’re here for the nude vibe and to get laid.

The building itself is old, with slow elevators and worn common areas that evoke more “budget beach hotel” than “resort with lifestyle vibes.” Many opt for day passes and book elsewhere on Hollywood Beach for their overnight stays which does make the evening hours a bit of a ghost town.

Playrooms – Rooftop’s playrooms are a mixed bag. Scattered across the second and third floors, a couples floors down from the pool, the rooms are in theory, full-access, sexy zones for exhibitionist fun. There’s even a voyeur balcony if you like to watch.

Couches and lounging areas for social play
Swings, benches, and a sauna for kinkier angles
A large round bed that looks sexy but rarely feels like the epicenter of chaos

Reality check: Sometimes these rooms are dead. Like, awkwardly silent except for the creak of an old mattress. You might walk in and find one couple mid-session… or nothing at all. Evenings especially can be dead after day pass visitors leave.

Vibe check – Rooftop Resort can be a love-it-or-hate-it experience. The vibe leans nudist-first, lifestyle-second. That means you’ll see a lot more naked bodies than active play, especially during the day. The crowd is a mixed bag, age-wise. Guests typically fall into the 40s–60s age range, with a handful of younger, cute couples on busier weekends. But let’s be real – if you’re expecting a supercharged sex club vibe, this isn’t it. Plus it can get into the single guy wanking dead territory, so buyer beware.

Should you go? – If you vibe with naked mingling, BYOB chill, and making your own fun, Rooftop’s got potential. Just don’t expect Bliss Cruise energy in a Hollywood Beach hotel. Rooftop is worth a visit if you’re into nude vibes, poolside mingling, and laid-back chilling near the beach – especially on weekends with DJs or BBQ parties. Just don’t expect luxury or guaranteed play. The sexier energy depends on the crowd, and the aging rooms don’t exactly scream “resort.” Bring your own drinks, some patience, and keep expectations casual.

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!

Naughty Links and Extras! (Fun, Irreverent, and Maybe Passably Useful)

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Vixen LA Review: Couples-Only Vibes in the Valley

Sat, 13 Dec 2025 06:35:08 +0000

Vixen LA Review: Couples-Only Vibes in the Valley

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Looking for a sexy night out in LA without the pressure? Vixen is a small but sultry couples-only club with BYOB, private rooms, and just enough kink to keep it interesting.

By: Kat Swings

If LA’s swinger scene had a “cool auntie,” it would be Club Vixen – lowkey, cozy, and down for whatever you’re into… as long as you’re part of a couple (or a beautiful unicorn!). Tucked into Van Nuys (yes, the Valley, don’t panic), this club isn’t trying to be flashy or high-drama. It’s the kind of place you pop into after dinner, sip your sneaky bottle of wine, grind a little on the dance floor, and maybe sneak into the glory hole room before calling it a night.

We dish on all this and more plus give lots of questionable newbie advice on the Vanilla Swingers podcast.

Club Vixen Review

Distance – 30-45 min from downtown LA, in Van Nuys, CA

Hours – Only open on Saturdays (and select holidays)

Saturday – 9pm-3am

Pricing – Membership is required.

Couple – $11/mo membership
Saturday – $80-100
Single Female –$11/mo membership
FREE

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First Impressions – The location’s industrial (what LA club isn’t?), and if you’re not a member, good luck finding the door. There’s usually a security guard outside with a flashlight to guide you in, which honestly feels kind of cinematic.

Inside, it’s clean and intimate, small in a good way. The crowd leans mostly 30s–50s, but there’s definitely some hot younger couples on the dance floor. Everyone’s friendly, sexy, and surprisingly down-to-earth.

Inside Tour – Once you’re in the door (after a little flashlight-led scavenger hunt), you’ll check in and head into a clean, cozy space that feels more like a sexy house party than a club. There’s a lounge with couches to the left where couples mingle, sip their drinks, and start the night slow. To the right, you’ll find the small dance floor with a pole, and beyond that? That’s where the real fun begins.

The play areas are spread throughout the venue, but there aren’t many.

A BDSM cross tucked in a corner for the kink-curious
A sex swing that’s actually in use on most nights
Several private playrooms with closed doors for privacy
A voyeur windowed room if you’re into putting on a show
And yes… a legit glory hole, lit just right to feel naughty but safe

The whole layout is compact but well thought out, perfect for exploring at your own pace. You can watch, you can wander, or you can walk in with a plan and find yourself tied up 30 minutes later. No judgment here.

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Bar/DJ – It’s BYOB, baby! Bring your bottle, hand it to the bartender, and they’ll keep your drinks flowing. There’s a cozy lounge area for chatting, flirting, and pre-play drinks. This isn’t a place for wild table service or bottle girls, just good vibes and your own tequila. The dance floor is tight, but not in a bad way. There’s a stripper pole, dim lights, and a DJ spinning just the right level of dirty beats. Not a full-on rave, but definitely space to get handsy with your date… or someone else’s.

Playrooms – There are 4 private playrooms, most behind closed doors, which is intentional – Vixen is built to make women feel safe. Want to put on a show? There’s a windowed room, a glory hole, and even a BDSM cross and sex swing for those feeling extra spicy. It’s voyeur-friendly without being performative. Rooms aren’t winning any awards for ambiance, but there are clean beds and they get the job done.

Vibe check – This club nails the balance – sexy, social, and chill. Some nights are packed with potential; other nights are more lowkey. But even on a slow night, you’ll still get to grind, flirt, and likely head home buzzed and satisfied. And with no pressure to perform, it’s ideal for everything from newbie toe-dips to full-throttle freaky.

Should you go? – If you’re a couple looking for a laid-back, sexy space with no single dudes, no pressure, and just enough kink to keep things spicy – Vixen’s got you covered. It’s not the biggest or bougiest, but it’s clean, sexy, and built for real connection.

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Vixen Club: Sexy LA house-party vibes with real play potential. BYOB, couples-only, and packed with fun touches like a swing, a cross, and a glory hole.

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Can You Go to a Swinger Club and Not Have Sex?

Sat, 13 Dec 2025 03:13:39 +0000

Can You Go to a Swinger Club and Not Have Sex?

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Thinking about going to a swinger club but not ready to do the deed? Good news: watching, flirting, and just vibing are totally fair game. Let’s bust the biggest myth right now.

By: Kat Swings

Can you go to a swingers club and not have sex? Yes, yes, hell yes. Swinger clubs are like sexy buffets – just because the dessert table’s there doesn’t mean you have to pile on the whipped cream. Plenty of people go just to explore the vibe, watch others play, or dip a cautious toe into the lifestyle pool without diving headfirst into an orgy. Exhibitionism and voyeurism and flirty vibes are the absolute go-to vibes at most swinger clubs.

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Watching Is a Thing and It's Hot

You might be surprised how common it is to attend just to observe. Swinger clubs often have voyeur-friendly spaces where you can watch others without joining in. Exhibitionists thrive on people watching, so they need voyeurs. Sometimes the act of seeing real people express real chemistry is more arousing than anything on Pornhub. Bonus – you’ll learn what turns you on in the process.

Dance, Flirt, and Sip

Most swinger clubs are part social lounge, part sexy playground. That means music, drinks, and flirty convos are often the main attraction. Grab a drink, flirt with a hot couple, or just enjoy the show. It’s like being at the sexiest bar you’ve ever been to – except here, consent is king, and pressure is never part of the dress code.

What If You Change Your Mind?

Go in with zero expectations but stay open to the maybe. Sometimes people show up just to watch and wind up in a threesome with a totally hot undergrad. (Totally not speaking from experience. ) You’re allowed to change your mind either way. That’s part of the fun. Just make sure you and your partner have talked all this through ahead of time, the what-ifs, the whos, the wheres, so if the night carries you away, you’ve fantasized about it together ahead of time.

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Best for Newbies

Not only can you go to a swinger club without playing – it’s actually the best way to start. There is no pressure to play, and seasoned swingers are not there to jump your bones. Most newbies attend just to see what the energy feels like. Watch body language, listen to how people flirt, and feel out the spaces. There’s no rush, no scoreboard, and no shame in easing in slowly. Slow and steady wins the race. Many couples venture into swinger clubs once, twice, thrice before traversing into any sort of swap. So go in and explore.

Kat's Final Thoughts

Whether you’re watching from the sidelines, flirting at the bar, or steaming up the hot tub with zero plans to play – yes, you still belong. It’s how most of us started! As long as you show up with respect and a good vibe, swinger clubs welcome all kinds of sexy spectators. So slip into something sexy and fabulous, grab your partner (or don’t), and step into the fantasy world. No pressure, no expectations – just permission to explore. You’ll only wish you’d tried it sooner! So what are you waiting for?!

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!

Swinger Lingo (check Swinger Dictionary for more!)

Swingers club: The adult amusement park of the lifestyle—sexy people, dark corners, delicious trouble, and endless possibilities. It’s where couples come to flirt, mingle, explore, and play with others in a consensual, curated environment. Want the dirt?

Dirty vanilla: Like vanilla with some sprinkles, because who says you can’t have your cake and eat it too? Dirty vanillas seem vanilla on the outside but add a little spice behind the scenes. They keep a mostly traditional relationship but dabble in kink, threesomes, or open-minded fun – lifestyle-adjacent with a naughty streak.

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How to Flirt in a Swinger Club with Finesse

Sat, 13 Dec 2025 03:04:11 +0000

How to Flirt in a Swinger Club with Finesse

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Flirting in a swinger club isn’t just about being hot – it’s about being approachable, fun, and flirty as hell. From body language to banter, here’s how to charm the clothes off your fellow party people.

By: Kat Swings

Flirting in a swinger club isn’t about pickup lines or performance – it’s about connection. You’re not auditioning for The Bachelor, babes. You’re here to connect, not conquer. Flirting as a couple doesn’t mean you need to full-swap by midnight. It means showing up as a team – present, playful, and open to possibility. The hottest couples on the floor? They’re the ones laughing, teasing, and vibing together, whether they go home with a threesome, foursome or just a good story. So let’s talk about how to flirt like the confident, curious couple you should be.

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Flirting Starts with Body Language

Before you even say a word, you’re already flirting. How? With how you walk in. Your vibe. Your smiles. How you touch each other.

Hold hands. Stay connected. That “we’re into each other” energy is magnetic.
Make eye contact with others, not just each other.
Smile. A lot. Sexy people love a good smile. And laugh.
Light touching others is flirtation gold. We call it ‘kino’ – a light brush of a hand, an arm… fire!

PRO TIP: If one of you is sitting like a bouncer with crossed arms while the other is trying to mingle, it sends weird energy. Get on the same page, and stay flirty together.

Approach as a Duo

You’re not lone wolves. You’re a sexy tag team. If you see a couple or a cutie you want to talk to, approach them together. Don’t send one partner as the scout like so many do, sending their lovely ladies as bait on a hook. Swinger clubs shouldn’t be recon missions. Here are some easy conversation starters. Keep it simple! You don’t need to be slick. You just need to be genuine.

“Hi, we’re [Names] – love your outfit!”
“You two look like you’re having fun. First time here?”
“How long you been in the lifestyle?”
“We’re still figuring this place out – mind if we join you for a drink?”

Flirt with Energy, Not Expectations

Lifestyle flirting isn’t about asking to play – it’s about reading the room. Flirting is foreplay. The real players know how to build tension not bulldoze it.

If the vibe feels mutual, escalate slowly – more conversation, more physical closeness, more flirty banter. Leave it at “Maybe we’ll see you in the playroom?” That way they have a chance to talk about it alone and they feel no pressure to say yes or no.
If the vibe feels off or flat? Say you’re going to go get another drink and then find another place (and couple) to sit and chat up.
Never ask to go to the playroom right away. Seriously. You just met.

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Find the Watering Holes

Flirting is easier where the energy’s already buzzing. Dance floors are not really the place to be social. Sure, you can give someone a flirty eye or even grind a little close. But conversation will be limited so you’ll be left with body language only. Pick spots that make it easy to come and go… and feel out chemistry. We call these the watering holes, where you can find your easy ‘prey.’

By the bar? Chat people up over drinks. You’re already standing around with nothing to do with your hands—perfect time to flash a smile and break the ice.
Hot tub or smoking patio/teepee? These low-key convos = easy flirt zones. People are relaxed, maybe half-naked, and just vibing – no better place for a casual, “So… been here before?”
Tables sitting along the dance floor. Perfect for people-watching, making eye contact, and inviting couples to slide over.
Pool table. Don’t know how to play? Even better. Ask for help and let the sexy banter do the rest.

Mix & Mingle

Even if you’re not planning to play, you do need to be social. This isn’t a middle school dance – it’s a vibe. Practice your social game. Talk to people. Flirt a little. Ask questions. Everyone in that room has a story, and the more mini-connections you make, the more magnetic you become. The goal? Float around like a sexy butterfly. Chat for 5–10 minutes, then grab a drink, dance a little, and plop down with the next interesting couple. It’s not about locking in a foursome – it’s about showing the room you’re open, friendly, and vibing together. That way, when playrooms open later, you’re not strangers… you’re that hot, social couple everyone already noticed.

Kat's Final Thoughts

Flirt like you play. With kindness. With awareness. With clear cues. The couples who flirt best are the ones who:

Know how to read signals.
Support each other mid-flirt.
Don’t take rejection personally.

You’re not here to impress -you’re here to enjoy. So flirt like you already got the prize (hint: you did – each other). And remember to have fun!

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!

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How to Rock a Hotel Takeover (And Why Many Couples Fail)

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 21:53:09 +0000

How to Rock a Hotel Takeover (And Why Many Couples Fail)

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Hotel takeovers can be magical – or a relationship stress test. Learn the common reasons couples struggle and how to crush your next takeover weekend.

By: Kat Swings

Hotel takeovers are one of the most exciting parts of the lifestyle – large or medium-scale sexy parties, flirty vibes, and endless chances to connect. But for couples who aren’t prepared, they can also be surprisingly overwhelming, awkward, or emotionally tense. If you’ve ever wondered why some pairs thrive at these events while others fizzle out, this guide will break down the real reasons couples fail and how you can do it right.

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Why Couples Struggle

A hotel takeover isn’t just one night at a club – it’s a multi‑day social marathon full of parties, pool scenes, dance floors, and social interactions that span breakfast, lunch, dinner, and after‑hours. Many couples step into this wild weekend with no plan and no prep, which leads to:

Unrealistic expectations
Miscommunication
Emotional overload
Boundary confusion
Getting spread too thin

Most couples think the weekend is “just a party” but they’re a little more than just a regular swinger club. It’s a social game first and also about staying in sync with each other while everyone else is out there flirting, dancing, and scoring invites to themed rooms.

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The Big Mistake: Have No Expectations

One of the most common mistakes couples make is walking in with expectations, whether that’s hooking up, comparing yourselves to other couples, or thinking “this should be magical.” The best experiences happen when you go in with no expectations and let the weekend unfold organically. Magic often ensues.

Expectations put pressure on you – and pressure is the enemy of pleasure. Go in and plan to have a fun party. Dress in theme, dance, drink, mingle. And any sexy fun? Let that be gravy!

Communication & Boundaries

Before you ever walk through the hotel lobby, talk to your partner about boundaries for the weekend ahead. This isn’t just a 2 hour jaunt to the local club. It’s bigger, and bigger means more talking.

What you’re comfortable exploring
How you’ll handle flirting or attention from others
What words or signals you’ll use if you need a break
Whether separate play is okay
How you check back in emotionally

Couples who fail to talk before heading to a swinger club often end up scrambling during it, which leads to awkward moments, hurt feelings, or unspoken resentment. Partners who talk and reaffirm their comfort zones feel confident and connected all weekend. This is more than a swinger club – the bigger the takeover, the more planning and communication you need.

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Social Overload vs. Personal Space

Hotel takeovers pack an intense social punch – daytime mixers, poolside chats, parties that run late, and crowds that seem nonstop. For many couples, this can lead to:

Sensory overload
Shiny‑object syndrome
Emotional exhaustion

But here’s the trick – your room is your reset button (unless you’re like us and you bring a unicorn for the weekend! LOL!). Unlike a club, you can step back, decompress, snack, nap, or cuddle – no embarrassment, no pressure to stay on the dance or playroom floor. Couples who use that private space wisely come out refreshed, not frazzled.

Up Your Social Game

Look, if you’re not willing to talk to people, you’re gonna have a bad time. A really bad time. Hotel takeovers are like freshman orientation, if everyone was half-naked and slightly tipsy.

Even if you’re introverted, this is your moment to fake it till you make it. Lifestyle folks are some of the friendliest humans alive, and all it takes is a smile and a “hey there!” to break the ice. You don’t need to deliver a TED Talk – just be body-positive, sex-positive, and friendly.

Here are a few go-to openers:

“Where are you from?”
“Is this your first takeover?”
“How long have you been in the lifestyle?”

PRO-TIP: Don’t glue yourself to one couple all night. Flit around like the sexy little social butterfly you are. Say hi, float in and out of conversations, and make soft connections throughout the event. That way, when the vibe shifts to playtime later, you’ve already laid the groundwork – and it won’t feel like you’re wandering a hotel full of strangers.

Practical Tips to Crush It

Here’s your quick checklist:

Pack smart. Theme outfits, sunscreen, sex toys & lingerie
Talk before you go. Boundaries, desires, limits
Stay present. Avoid comparing yourself to other couples
Use your room. Reset when needed & BYOB
Go with a vibe, not a mission. Whether you play or don’t, enjoy the social rhythm. Takeovers are a party!

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!

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Hotel takeover: The ultimate adult playground, where every room is a stage for seduction and every hallway whispers secrets of desire. An event where a hotel or resort is reserved exclusively for the use of swingers, allowing participants to engage in sexual activities and socialize in a private and secure environment.

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What to Expect at Your First Lifestyle Hotel Takeover

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 21:27:42 +0000

What to Expect at Your First Lifestyle Hotel Takeover

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Ever wondered what it’s like to check into a hotel that turns into a full-blown swinger paradise? It’s a step up from a swinger club, and a poor man’s Bliss Cruise or Naughty N’awlins.

By: Kat Swings

Imagine booking a hotel room… and finding out the ENTIRE property is filled with sexy, like-minded, open-minded couples who all want to play! That’s a lifestyle hotel takeover -when an entire hotel is reserved exclusively for swingers, ethically non-monogamous couples, and adventurous adults looking to mix, mingle, and maybe more. These events are part sexy vacation, part fantasy camp, and part adult prom -with the added twist that nudity, playrooms, and themed parties are often part of the itinerary.

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What Is a Lifestyle Hotel Takeover?

Takeovers are like adult summer camp – if summer camp had lingerie, pool parties, and lube packets at the front desk. All that’s missing are some hot, young pool boys!

Run by lifestyle event organizers, hotel takeovers transform boring hotels into anything-but-vanilla fantasylands. They rent out most—or all—of a hotel for a multi-day event. Once you book your room, you’re not just booking a bed – you’re unlocking access to poolside parties, nightly theme balls, sexy seminars, and after-hours playrooms.

There are more takeovers than you can shake a stick at, in every corner of the country and around the world. Massive ones like Naughty N’awlins, Plush Dirty Vegas, and Purgatory in Houston. Wild weekenders like Splash in Ft. Lauderdale, Atlanta, and Houston. East Coast classics from Friction. West Coast heat from Plush’s Flesh & Fantasy Ball and Allures in Sacramento. And smaller, more intimate takeovers like the Magnolia Hotel event in Denver with BelleEvents.

At check-in, you usually get wristbands, a sexy smile, and a loose itinerary. The whole property turns into a vibe = from the rooftop to the lobby. And the best part? Everyone’s there for the same reason. Sex positivity, however you define it! You won’t be making awkward small talk with vanillas at the ice machine. And no kids!

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House Party vs. Hotel Takeover

So, how is a hotel takeover different than a house party? As different as apples and glow-in-the-dark oranges.

A house party usually means a small, handpicked group of OG swingers in someone’s home. It’s intimate, intense, and often… very DTF. Great for seasoned pros, but for newbies? I’d stay far away. We do.

Takeovers, on the other hand, are a whole different vibe. They’re one part swinger club, one part Bliss Cruise, all at a fraction of the cost. A poor man’s Bliss Cruise, with no passports and fewer pirate hats.

They attract seasoned swingers, newbie couples, unicorns, exhibitionists, voyeurs, and everyone in between. You can dip in and out of the action at your own pace. There’s no pressure to play, and the social atmosphere is much more forgiving for first-timers.

In short – if you’re new to the lifestyle? This is the perfect place to start.

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What Should You Pack?

Themes are everything. Expect to see nights like “Glow Me,” “Pajama Party,” “Eyes Wide Shut,” or “Dress to Undress.” You’ll want to bring:

Sexy themed outfits for each night. Swingers love to dress up!
Swimwear for the pool (or not, depending on the rules)
Lube, condoms, breath mints, sex toys, lingerie
Your flirt game

Also smart – a mini cooler for BYOB drinks in your room, snacks for the post-play munchies, and some hotel decorations if you plan to play with friends in your room. Transform your room into a play wonderland!

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What’s the Vibe Like?

Takeovers run the gamut – some feel like sexy adult versions of Coachella, while others lean more intimate and couple-connection-oriented. But one thing’s for sure – the energy is high, the consent culture is strong, and the people-watching is absolutely elite.

You’ll meet every flavor of lifestyle couple – from soft swap newbies to seasoned full-swap pros. Some are there to party and explore. Others are just there to connect, flirt, and soak in the sensuality. Everyone’s there for a reason and are fun lifestyle folk – but not everyone is there for you, so read the room, respect boundaries, and bring the best version of yourself. Make some connections!

Our Experience: From 3 Floors to 3,000 Swingers

We’ve done it all – from the massive chaos of Naughty in New Orleans with 3,000 swingers and 2 full hotel takeovers, to Plush Dirty Vegas with 1,200 partygoers, to Plush Flesh & Fantasy Ball in Palm Springs with 1,500 sexy humans… and even Friction’s more modest 600-person takeover and the tiny 3-floor takeover of the Magnolia Hotel in Denver.

PRO TIP: You don’t always need to book a room to attend – some events sell day or night passes. But here’s our honest take? Staying at the host hotel is 100x more fun. It’s easier to mingle, flirt, sneak off for a quickie, or rally for a late-night orgy. The only exception? Dirty Vegas. We like partying there but staying in our own Strip-side casino suite for some sexy Feeld-style app fun post-party. But hey that’s just us!

If you’re just starting out, try a smaller-scale event – a 200-room takeover or a boutique hotel with just a few floors. Then work your way up to a mega-event like Naughty or Purgatory. They’re less overwhelming and easier to make real connections.

Plus, if you’re in the host hotel? You can bring all the liquor you want – it’s your room! That’s a huge cost savings over $18 drinks at the bar.

Should You Go?

If you’ve ever wanted to step out of your day-to-day routine and into a steamy, judgment-free adult playground – this is it. Hotel takeovers are a great way to dip your toes (or more) into the lifestyle without the pressure of a traditional club.

You can vibe with couples at the bar, test your exhibitionist streak at the pool, or just people-watch in your sexiest sheer robe. It’s a choose-your-own-adventure weekend that might just unlock something new in your relationship, your fantasies, or your comfort zone.

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!

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