{"id":8185,"date":"2025-05-29T01:54:49","date_gmt":"2025-05-29T01:54:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/?p=8185"},"modified":"2025-12-11T00:27:58","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T00:27:58","slug":"mfm-threesomes-how-to-make-her-the-star","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/mfm-threesomes-how-to-make-her-the-star\/","title":{"rendered":"MFM Threesomes: How to Make Her the Star"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"8185\" class=\"elementor elementor-8185\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f188d8 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8f188d8\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb027e9 bg-border e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"bb027e9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e50d29f main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e50d29f\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4edbeba elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4edbeba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">MFM Threesomes: How to Make Her the Star<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a436bcb main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a436bcb\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8102b5f elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8102b5f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">New Swinger Podcast | <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/mfm-threesomes-how-to-make-her-the-star\/id1734698162?i=1000701860103\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Apple<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/2gt9mo4JjjIMBquy0w6ENs?si=dd8c03d381974cb3\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Spotify<\/a><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ce2b002 spotifyplayer elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"ce2b002\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/2gt9mo4JjjIMBquy0w6ENs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameBorder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e65d9ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e65d9ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>Don\u2019t be scared of MFM threesomes \u2013 Kat\u2019s guide shows you how to explore the fantasy, find the right third, and keep all the attention (and pleasure) right where it belongs: on\u00a0<em data-start=\"174\" data-end=\"180\">you.<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fb8885b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fb8885b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">By: <u>Kat Swings<\/u><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c6a3eef highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c6a3eef\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d2076c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7d2076c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"\" data-start=\"202\" data-end=\"531\">Let\u2019s cut to the chase \u2013 if you\u2019ve ever laid in bed fantasizing about two men touching, tasting, and worshipping you at the same time \u2013 welcome. You are not alone. MFM threesomes are one of the\u00a0<em data-start=\"393\" data-end=\"402\">hottest<\/em>\u00a0and most accessible ways to dip your toes into the swinging lifestyle. And spoiler alert? You don\u2019t even have to go all the way.<\/p><p class=\"\" data-start=\"533\" data-end=\"779\">Whether you\u2019re new to the scene, soft swap only, or just not quite ready to see your husband in bed with another woman (no shame in that game), this dynamic might just be your perfect little starter fantasy\u2014with a very real, very delicious twist. All this and more in our most recent episode of\u00a0<span style=\"color: #000000;\">the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #000000;\"><span style=\"text-decoration-line: underline;\">Vanilla Swingers podcast<\/span><\/span><\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b19b4eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b19b4eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-mfm-threesomes-how-to.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-8189\" alt=\"Vanilla Swingers MFM Threesomes\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-mfm-threesomes-how-to.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-mfm-threesomes-how-to-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-mfm-threesomes-how-to-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-mfm-threesomes-how-to-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-mfm-threesomes-how-to-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-mfm-threesomes-how-to-430x430.png 430w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-mfm-threesomes-how-to-220x220.png 220w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c92c4cd highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c92c4cd\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-54f740d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"54f740d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What Is an MFM Threesome? (And Why It\u2019s Not That Deep... Unless You Want It to Be)<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c30a28b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c30a28b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"877\" data-end=\"1178\">MFM stands for Male-Female-Male. That\u2019s you, sandwiched between two men, being absolutely spoiled from all angles. It\u2019s\u00a0<em data-start=\"997\" data-end=\"1002\">not<\/em>\u00a0MMF (where the guys are into each other, too), and there\u2019s zero pressure for it to be wild, raunchy, or porn-level freaky\u2014unless that\u2019s your vibe, in which case \u2013 you go girl!<\/p><p data-start=\"1180\" data-end=\"1449\">In an MFM, the woman (that\u2019s you) is the\u00a0\u2b50of the show. It\u2019s all eyes, all hands, all mouths on you. No splitting up. No emotional weirdness. No \u201cwhere\u2019s my husband?\u201d anxiety. Just one perfectly choreographed night where you are adored like the DAMN GODDESS you are.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-783ebec highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"783ebec\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d54234f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d54234f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why MFM Can Be a Soft Swap Couple\u2019s Dream<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-97b1327 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"97b1327\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"\" data-start=\"1502\" data-end=\"1596\">Listen, not everyone is ready to do the full swap thing. And guess what? You don\u2019t have to be.<\/p><p class=\"\" data-start=\"1598\" data-end=\"1879\">MFM allows couples to stay totally connected\u2014physically and emotionally\u2014while still inviting a third in to spice things up. You can set the rules \u2013 maybe it\u2019s just oral. Maybe it\u2019s light touching. Maybe it\u2019s\u00a0<em data-start=\"1805\" data-end=\"1821\">everything but<\/em>. You decide the pace, the boundaries, and the heat level.<\/p><p class=\"\" data-start=\"1881\" data-end=\"2053\">There\u2019s no walking off with another person. No watching your partner with someone else. Just one shared, ultra-intimate experience that will have you both buzzing for days.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6678e4 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e6678e4\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f58aca5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f58aca5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Single Males in the Lifestyle: Surprisingly Respectful<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cc226a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1cc226a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"\" data-start=\"2136\" data-end=\"2279\">Now I know what you\u2019re thinking:\u00a0<em data-start=\"2169\" data-end=\"2256\">\u201cUgh, aren\u2019t single guys in the lifestyle just creepy dudes with zero social skills?\u201d<\/em>\u00a0The wanking dead? Honestly? Not usually.<\/p><p class=\"\" data-start=\"2281\" data-end=\"2565\">The good ones\u2014the ones who\u00a0<em data-start=\"2308\" data-end=\"2316\">get it<\/em>\u2014are respectful, patient, and totally in tune with the couple\u2019s boundaries. A lot of them are better communicators than some couples we\u2019ve met. They know this dynamic isn\u2019t about domination or showing off. It\u2019s about\u00a0<em data-start=\"2525\" data-end=\"2552\">enhancing your connection<\/em>\u00a0as a couple.<\/p><p class=\"\" data-start=\"2567\" data-end=\"2726\">They\u2019ll ask questions, respect your limits, and won\u2019t pressure you to go further than you\u2019re ready for. So let go of the bad porn stereotypes. This ain\u2019t that.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ef26594 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"ef26594\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-383de47 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"383de47\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"891\" height=\"499\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/horny-alpha-bull.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-8191 lazyload\" alt=\"Single male alpha bull\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/horny-alpha-bull.jpg 891w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/horny-alpha-bull-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/horny-alpha-bull-768x430.jpg 768w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 891px) 100vw, 891px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 891px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 891\/499;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-28af190 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"28af190\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-006825d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"006825d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to Find the Right Third (a.k.a. No Alphas, No Bulls)<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-85b6cc0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"85b6cc0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"\" data-start=\"2805\" data-end=\"2934\">Choosing your third is like casting a very sexy, very important supporting role\u2014and not every guy is worthy of a callback.<\/p><p class=\"\" data-start=\"2936\" data-end=\"2960\">Here\u2019s what to look for:<\/p><ul data-start=\"2961\" data-end=\"3273\"><li class=\"\" data-start=\"2961\" data-end=\"3034\"><p class=\"\" data-start=\"2963\" data-end=\"3034\">\ud83d\udc02 A guy who respects the <em data-start=\"2986\" data-end=\"3002\">husband\u2019s role<\/em>\u00a0as much as the wife\u2019s pleasure.<\/p><\/li><li class=\"\" data-start=\"3035\" data-end=\"3124\"><p class=\"\" data-start=\"3037\" data-end=\"3124\">\ud83d\udc02 Someone who\u2019s not throwing around words like \u201cbull\u201d or \u201calpha\u201d unless that\u2019s your kink.<\/p><\/li><li class=\"\" data-start=\"3125\" data-end=\"3191\"><p class=\"\" data-start=\"3127\" data-end=\"3191\">\ud83d\udc02 A man who listens, checks in, and doesn\u2019t make it about himself.<\/p><\/li><li class=\"\" data-start=\"3192\" data-end=\"3273\"><p class=\"\" data-start=\"3194\" data-end=\"3273\">\ud83d\udc02 Bonus points if he\u2019s humble, communicative, and knows when to take a damn hint.<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p class=\"\" data-start=\"3275\" data-end=\"3447\">Use lifestyle apps, vetted swinger groups, or word-of-mouth from trusted friends. If his vibe is off? Hard pass. 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Don't Miss!\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/h4>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-icon-box-description\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\tThreesomes are the GOAT\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d6008ad elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d6008ad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why This Is Kat's Playground<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bf808f0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bf808f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"\" data-start=\"3514\" data-end=\"3760\">Let\u2019s be real\u2014there\u2019s nothing quite like being the center of attention between two men who are there to\u00a0<em data-start=\"3618\" data-end=\"3631\">please you.<\/em>\u00a0Not compete with you. Not distract from your experience. Just please, tease, and make you feel like the absolute main character. (I\u2019m drooling just writing this!! *sigh*)<\/p><p class=\"\" data-start=\"3762\" data-end=\"3898\">There\u2019s no separating. No side play. No confusion. Just\u00a0<em data-start=\"3818\" data-end=\"3823\">you<\/em>, dripping in attention and soaking in the power of being fully worshipped.<\/p><p class=\"\" data-start=\"3900\" data-end=\"4113\"><strong data-start=\"3900\" data-end=\"3962\">And yes\u2014this is my favorite lifestyle dynamic, hands-down.<\/strong>\u00a0It leaves me breathless, glowing, and absolutely grinning for days. Let\u2019s just say\u2026 if I had to pick one way to play forever? This would be it!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1bf22f2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1bf22f2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"693\" height=\"487\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mfm-mmf-threesome.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-15308 lazyload\" alt=\"MFM MMF threesome\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mfm-mmf-threesome.png 693w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mfm-mmf-threesome-300x211.png 300w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 693px) 100vw, 693px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 693px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 693\/487;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-372204b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"372204b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Top Positions for MFM (That Don\u2019t Require Full Swap)<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ef1f01 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2ef1f01\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"4181\" data-end=\"4291\">You don\u2019t need to go all the way to make it hot. These positions are soft-swap friendly&nbsp;<em data-start=\"4269\" data-end=\"4274\">and<\/em>&nbsp;fire-level sexy:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"4293\" data-end=\"4829\">\n<li data-start=\"4293\" data-end=\"4421\">\n<p data-start=\"4295\" data-end=\"4421\"><strong data-start=\"4295\" data-end=\"4329\">\ud83c\udf46 Spitroast (in all variations):<\/strong> One inside, one in the mouth\u2014standing, kneeling, doggy, whatever. Total access. Total thrill.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4422\" data-end=\"4514\">\n<p data-start=\"4424\" data-end=\"4514\"><strong data-start=\"4424\" data-end=\"4443\">\ud83c\udf46 Double blowjob:<\/strong>&nbsp;One eggplant on each side. Hands, mouths, eye contact\u2026 it\u2019s giving goddess. Let&#8217;s be ambidictrous!<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4515\" data-end=\"4626\">\n<p data-start=\"4517\" data-end=\"4626\"><strong data-start=\"4517\" data-end=\"4560\">\ud83c\udf46 Oral + penetration (from your partner):<\/strong>&nbsp;While the other teases or kisses. Her pleasure? Off the charts.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4627\" data-end=\"4733\">\n<p data-start=\"4629\" data-end=\"4733\"><strong data-start=\"4629\" data-end=\"4647\">\ud83c\udf46 Spooning oral:<\/strong>&nbsp;One man holding you, one worshipping you from the front. Intimate. Melty. Obsessed.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4734\" data-end=\"4829\">\n<p data-start=\"4736\" data-end=\"4829\"><strong data-start=\"4736\" data-end=\"4757\">\ud83c\udf46 Tag team teasing:<\/strong>&nbsp;Light touch, slow build, and delicious anticipation. Sensual &gt; frantic.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"4831\" data-end=\"4949\">Remember, you call the shots. You set the pace. MFM doesn\u2019t have to be rough or raunchy\u2014unless that\u2019s what&nbsp;<em data-start=\"4938\" data-end=\"4943\">you<\/em>&nbsp;want.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d285fbb elementor-position-left elementor-vertical-align-middle elementor-mobile-position-left elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-box\" data-id=\"d285fbb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-box.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-box-wrapper\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-box-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/threesome-guide\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"elementor-icon elementor-animation-\" tabindex=\"-1\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fas-comment-dots\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M256 32C114.6 32 0 125.1 0 240c0 49.6 21.4 95 57 130.7C44.5 421.1 2.7 466 2.2 466.5c-2.2 2.3-2.8 5.7-1.5 8.7S4.8 480 8 480c66.3 0 116-31.8 140.6-51.4 32.7 12.3 69 19.4 107.4 19.4 141.4 0 256-93.1 256-208S397.4 32 256 32zM128 272c-17.7 0-32-14.3-32-32s14.3-32 32-32 32 14.3 32 32-14.3 32-32 32zm128 0c-17.7 0-32-14.3-32-32s14.3-32 32-32 32 14.3 32 32-14.3 32-32 32zm128 0c-17.7 0-32-14.3-32-32s14.3-32 32-32 32 14.3 32 32-14.3 32-32 32z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-box-content\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-icon-box-title\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/threesome-guide\/\" target=\"_blank\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tPSST! Don't Miss!\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/h4>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-icon-box-description\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\tUltimate Threesome Guide\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c98ff0 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"3c98ff0\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7539feb elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"7539feb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-con{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));--align-self:var(--container-widget-align-self,initial);--flex-shrink:0}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container{height:100%;width:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty{position:relative;min-height:22px;min-width:22px}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty .elementor-widget-empty-icon,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty .elementor-widget-empty-icon{position:absolute;top:0;bottom:0;left:0;right:0;margin:auto;padding:0;width:22px;height:22px}<\/style>\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c3b6ccc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c3b6ccc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated <strong>swingers podcast<\/strong> for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cb8a5ca e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"cb8a5ca\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b59a73f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b59a73f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/mfm-threesomes-how-to-make-her-the-star\/id1734698162?i=1000701860103\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"249\" height=\"60\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Untitled-6.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-5921 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 249px; 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(Fun, Irreverent, and Maybe Passably Useful)<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4708f3b spotifyplayer elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"4708f3b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/p9riv8_tfy4?si=2P-wYJzrUS7XbRq6\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6680506 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6680506\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Swinger Lingo (check <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo\/\">Swinger Dictionary<\/a> for more!)<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1f0051 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a1f0051\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">MFM<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">:<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\">Two\u2019s company, three\u2019s a crowd \u2013 and in this case, that crowd\u2019s getting down and dirty in the steamiest threesome around! An abbreviation for Male-Female-Male, referring to a sexual encounter involving two straight men and one woman, typically characterized by shared sexual activities and mutual pleasure where the woman is the center of attention.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c67cfae elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c67cfae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">MMF<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">:<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0Not to be confused with MFM, this tantalizing threesome has two guys and one lucky lady turning up the heat and explore every spicy possibility in every possible combination. An abbrevation for Male-Male-Female, where both men are bisexual and engage in sexual activities with each other and the woman.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-459aaca elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"459aaca\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Threesome:<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\">The perfect recipe for a steamy night, where three\u2019s never a crowd and every touch sends shivers down your spine. This sexual encounter involves three individuals, often characterized by various combinations of sexual activities and dynamics between participants.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8967309 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8967309\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Single male:<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\">The lone wolf of the lifestyle scene, navigating swinger clubs and parties solo. 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